“Shhhh, can you keep a secret “??

How many times have we done justice to this statement??

Apart from the million other things which the mankind will never understand about the womankind, what intrigues me the most is why women find it so hard to keep a secret?

Is it a blind inability or is there a more scientific explanation to it ??  Whatever be it, on a personal research, at least 95% of the things that come under “please don’t tell it to anyone” will have to be shared with that ONE TRUSTED FRIEND, from whom you simply cannot keep things away. We all have such friends don’t we ??  

And off course there is this 5% of deadly secret that does not reach the trusted friend either, coz they are “top secret “and remain deeply buried, sealed with double locks and iron gates, so that even the keeper of the secret visits it occasionally and so rarely and at such quick instances that it will not become a matter to ponder over, thereby reducing the risks of letting it out even in a casual conversation :/

Women love secrets, we thrive over the excitement of being a part of a secret. Be it the one who shares it or the recipient J there is joy in being both J And, if you are the receiver, the moment you hear the words “ I have something to tell you “ , you start speculating over the numerous possibilities, will it be this, will it be that ?? and more than half the secrets end with the classical “ I knew it!!! I knew it was about this “.

I don’t think I can vouch for this with any logical theory,  I guess women are simply made this way. It is not that they are insensitive to others feelings, it is just that women always live in company; we always have someone to share our things with. Be it our friends, parents, siblings or colleagues, there is always one person who knows everything about us and it is simply difficult to keep things away from that person J  Whatever be it, the earth shattering secret has to be shared with that one special person J  Even before the secret is shared with you, you know that one person who will definitely see the light of this J

So, to all the men folks, I have let a really huge cat out of the bag and now please don’t get judgemental about your women, we don’t mean any harm or we don’t mean to be numb to your feelings, it is just the intrinsic quality of every women J So the next time you say the golden words “please don’t tell it to anyone” to a women, remember that the promise is a promise but that never includes her BEST FRIEND J J

Cheers,

Sandy J J

PS: The joy of sharing the “forbidden” with a best friend is something a man will never understand J